I can remember a time in my life when I felt empty and dissatisfied. I felt as if my life was on repeat daily same routine. I did not endure the values of the heart or the purpose of my path. I didn’t understand faith, so how could I be thankful and show love. It wasn’t until I changed my mind set and learn how to appreciate myself and the things around me. I used to take everything personal. I felt as if the whole world was against me. Teachable moments would offend me, and I was always on the side defense. It was as if I was immune to drowning in criticism within myself and from others. Things got so bad and out of hand that I had no choice but to examine myself, look in the mirror and talk to the woman in me then I begin to realize that things that were happening, were for a cause. I started seeking and following the change for purpose, moving in the direction toward wholeness and being rich for life.

In that moment my inner heart begins to control my body, and my willingness to except my value for what I was worth. The anxiety begins to dissolve and My faith in God meant more to me than anything else. This was important and the best thing that I could have happened to me: self-actualization. It demonstrated happiness, positive emotions and good lasting experiences. I begin to thank God for life, I started walking upright and being secure in every trail and tribulation. I was no longer allowing myself to be minimized but to encourage the object of my faith.

When we become thankful, we begin to recognize the goodness of the gift of life in its entirety. It is as simple as soon as waking up and your feet touching the floor each morning with a prayer. Giving God praise for his grace and mercy, walking boldly in confidence and taking on the storms of life head on. An attitude of sincerity that developed the power of Abundance. How awesome is life in its abounding fullness of joy and strength for our mind, body and soul. Your appetite for life determines how hungry you are for freedom…. Gratitude!

Have you ever had your heart broken? someone you loved dearly to disappoint you? your children dishonor you or you were fired from your job? The pain from an aching heart is one like no other. Your emotional reactions leave you in a state of vulnerability.
We must use the pieces of our heart which were broken and create purpose. Despite the setbacks and barriers. We must measure how much we are willing and able to overcome any obstacles, this defines our emotional strength.
There are a couple of characteristics we must maintain in order to recover from pain or sorrow: self-awareness, mindfulness, self-care, positive relationships and purpose. Being resilient develops a mental capacity to adapt to any adversity.
Everything we go through in life is not always about us. Exposure brings about experience. The only way you can sustain a permanent change is to create a new way of thinking. Resilience is important because it enables us to develop protection from fear and anxiety, which can be overwhelming, and that helps maintain balance in our lives during difficult and stressful times.
No matter how many obstacles come our way, we must endure without giving way. For God is the light that surrounds me, God love hold me, God power protects me and the presence that watches over me.

Fierce: Having or displaying an intense or ferocious aggressiveness.
Feminine: Having qualities or appearance traditionally associated with women, especially delicacy and prettiness.
Facets: One side of many sided especially a side of a gem.
Today, I attended a brunch with the ladies of Laced with Class LLC. LWC is titled as a “one stop creative boutique on a mission to build , promote and empower the ‘Classy Chic Boss Lifestyle’ for women.” Labeled as being passionate and a professional organization designed in business branding, connections and networking. These ladies use the “Black Market” to create, host social events, promote networking in building platforms for artists and entrepreneurs.
The CEO and visionary Alacey Ashley, a 23 year old, single mother of one Jaxson Faison, A college undergrad and a servant of God, who aspire to inspire others, had a dream to become a entrepreneur and employee Melanin women. Alacey, attended Newburgh Free Academy and an HBCU at Virginia State University in Petersburg V.A.  Alacey defines herself as an overthinker and being influencer of MOM,000,0000 Millionaire Mom and Beyoncé, with “Classy Content” living life on the edge and “INTENTIONALLY’. Alacey creates her own lane.
This event we set at the table with hard working and inspire entrepreneurs, who introduced themselves. In a group breakout session the women we asked a vary of questions: Who/ What inspires you, What song motivates you , would you rather be rich or a genius?, a positive and negative characteristic about yourself and if you can represent any brand or business in the world what would it be and why?, IF you could travel anywhere in the world, where would it be and last but least What does intentional mean to you. with these question the ladies read others ladies answer and at the end the ladies answer with I AM …………..
The Brunch was event filled with purpose to inspire. Cookies and Milk would be my personal experience. I really enjoyed myself. The environment was warm, colorful and extraordinary. Full of reflections of who I inspired to be and my purpose to become a better me in my business. The exposure curated the upscale Fierce, Feminine and Facet Melanin to stay in the race.

One of the greatest weapons of all times is your MIND. When you deliberately focus on the platform of purpose and what’s ahead you become TRANSFORMATIVE.
Being transformative, helps you attain EXPLOSURE. If you can see it, you can achieve it. Exposure dispels all myths. Do things INTENTIONALLY! Exposure brings out EXPERIENCE. Your personal experience is something no one can take from you!!!

#INTENTIONALITY
#THOUGHT #BELIEFS #DESIRES #HOPES
#PURPOSIVE #DELIBERATE

Let us give thanks for life, love and beauty. Let us surrender ourselves daily to Christ in all things, Let our hearts be filled with gratitude for FAITH,HOPE and Wholeness, for the provision of all things through Christ is GOOD!!

This is not for likes, sympathy or am I shading anyone (if it hits that’s on you). But simply something I need to get off my chest!! I have raised my 3 children all alone, while raising myself. I worked, educated myself, maintained my house and kept my children active academically, spiritually and structured. I never once criticized their fathers or family members or anyone else for being absent (as I always encouraged relationships). I did what I had to. Birthdays, Christmases, road trips, graduations, sicknesses, game days, picture day, school meeting I SHOWED UP prepared and ready! There were good times and bad times. I never looked for handouts or made excuses. I used all my resources until they were exhausted. Not saying I was perfect, but I hustled! My sacrifices are sufficient, and I will not apologize for doing what I had to do!!! I never choice one because there’s always been 3!

I am confident in me; I depend on me. It took a lot of years figuring this thing called life out by myself while singly raising three children but through God’s grace and mercy, I know my worth, I carry it every day, my heart is full of gratitude, as I humbly pray through faith, hope and my wholeness. In my path, I’ve overcame fear, anxiety, hurt and abandonment as a weakness but now I’m structure by Gods boldness of strength, endurance, courage, and integrity.
IM TOO SOLID TO BE MOVED!

Do not allow others to prostitute your gift, stay true to your vision and keep marching to the spiritual beat within.
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For the word of God is quick and very much “Alive”, many of us come with situations that confront us, but if we trust in the Lord before trusting self, accept his promise, while accepting his chastening and be obedient— We will be able to walk with authority in the light with the heart of God.
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have everlasting life.